Welcome to Part 13 of the series "Dear Future Spouse." These are real people who are writing to their future King and Queen. They do not personally know each other, but they are getting to know each other through the letters. Each week, you will find a response to the letter before. So, grab some coffee, tea, or tissue, and enjoy! Tell us what you think!
Dear Future Wife,
I was so excited to read your words about shared relationship goals, and it was a wonderful feeling to sense your excitement on the subject. It’s amazing to have someone who can be in agreement on important foundational ideologies. I am really looking forward to all the times we will sit down to talk and discuss what we desire out of our marriage (within God’s purpose of course). Also, like you, I love to travel as well, and I have been fortunate to be able to go to some beautiful places, but I can’t wait to share all those moments with you. Where are some of the places that you have traveled? What are some of the places that you desire to visit?
The 3 lessons I hope our children learn from me is:
- God comes first in every aspect of their life… I believe that out of all the gifts I could give them, God is the Greatest of them all.
2 . To value working hard at an early age…even though working can be tough on them at times, if done right, the rewards are worth it.
- Learn as much as they can in this life…be it spiritual, political, financial, etc. I desire for them to be well-rounded.
What I would do differently with our children is be a better father and have a closer relationship with them than I was able to have with mine at a younger age. When I was younger, my Pops was around, but we just never had the best relationship. He didn’t really try to be apart of my life. It could stem from the loss of his father or him just not knowing how to be a father; whatever it may have been, we just didn’t have a great relationship. So, since I know what it’s like not to have a close relationship with mine, I never want my kids to experience not having the love of a father in their life at an early age. I’m going be to one of their biggest supporters, show them what unconditional love is, and instill in them everything I can; so, they can become the kings and/or queens they need to be.
As I close this letter I want to go back to a previous letter quickly to ask you a question that you asked me. What are your fears when it comes to marriage? Also, what are a few important things you like or love to experience while being courted? Asking for a future husband lol.
Agape Love,
Your Future Husband
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Fellas and Ladies, what are the top three places that you desire to travel with your future spouse?
Tune in for next week’s post- For Him: Part 14.
If you missed last week’s “For Him: Part 12,” tune in HERE.
