Welcome to Part 21 of the series "Dear Future Spouse." These are real people who are writing to their future King and Queen. They do not personally know each other, but they are getting to know each other through the letters. Each week, you will find a response to the letter before. So, grab some coffee, tea, or tissue, and enjoy! Tell us what you think!
Dear Future Wife,
Congratulations are in order! It’s a blessing to see what God is doing in your life with securing the amazing dream job and the business ventures he has placed in you to bring forth to the world. I also empathize with you about the challenges you have faced or are facing from losing your car to your relationship.
It is never easy losing certain valuables needed to make it through daily life, nor is it easy losing relationships to people you truly love and care about. I’m always amazed at the struggles and storms we go through in this life because we don’t care to go through them, yet when they are over, we appreciate them more than the sunny days (plus creating a greater appreciation for those sunny days).
The beautiful thing is that God works everything out in our favor if we remain obedient to His will and ways. Even though you had a Job moment (or you still could be going through it), we know the ending of the story. We can hold on to the fact that everything God allows the enemy to take a away, God will bless us with more than we had in our former (your latter days will be greater).
I admire your honesty and truth. Some of us realize that we haven’t always been at our best. There have been times when we made mistakes, had regrets, wished we could remake some bad choices. Yet we are here now, in this very moment of life, still with the opportunity to have a great life! Your imperfections, strengths and perseverance have led you to this time and space in life with God assisting you along your path, and I am grateful that he is allowing me to be apart of it.
As I come to a close in this letter, I want to say that it is kind for you to share your heart with me. Moving forward, I want to change the trajectory (better yet add on) of our conversations a tad bit. Don’t get me wrong, I am loving our conversations, but I believe we can unlock other areas that can be explored. Below are a few questions we both can ponder about and cover while moving forward:
–What makes you feel most loved? 
-What are your favorite ways to show physical affection (holding hands, cuddling, back and/or booty rubs, hugging, etc.)?
-What would be your ideal romantic date outside of the house (place, ambiance, attire, food, city or country, etc.)?
-What is something(s) in a relationship that you have always wanted to do but have yet to do?
Love Always,
Future Husband
P.S. I will be as patient as God allows me to be…Love is patient, Love is kind!
