Welcome to Part 19 of the series "Dear Future Spouse." These are real people who are writing to their future King and Queen. They do not personally know each other, but they are getting to know each other through the letters. Each week, you will find a response to the letter before. So, grab some coffee, tea, or tissue, and enjoy! Tell us what you think!
Dear Future Wife,
God is dear to my heart, and if it weren’t for him, I wouldn’t be here today. When it comes to loving me, loving God and yourself must come first. I love to see my wife having a strong relationship with Christ and really taking care of herself spiritually, mentally, and physically. That is a beautiful sight to witness and such a turn-on because it’s not easy at all handling your business on each of those levels.
The other day I was watching a video on Facebook of an elderly couple dancing away at an event. It appeared as if they were the only two people there absolutely enjoying themselves. As a couple, that’s what I desire for us to be–growing older but still enjoying each other even more than we did when we first fell in love! Below are important ways of learning and understanding how to love me:
-Praying, seeking, and growing as one with God in every aspect of our lives.
-Spending time together: chilling or going out to events that I’m interested in even if it doesn’t always necessarily peak your interest lol (which I know it might not always and vice versa).
-Assisting me towards goals I desire to achieve in my life.
-Love sexually: Guys don’t normally express to their women how they want their women to love on them or what feels good to our bodies. I believe it is important to grow towards being in tune with each other on this level as well. Having my wife be in tune with her sexuality, body, as well as to possess the creativity of bringing it all together to establish lasting and amazing moments of ecstasy is always a plus!
Moving forward, I can relate to your past thoughts when it comes to how you felt about your relationship with God because I used to ask those same questions: How do you know when God is speaking to you? Do I really have a relationship with Him, etc. Honestly, I just kept seeking him through His Word–learning and meditating on it. Also, I love praising and worshiping him, along with spending commune time with him (fasting and having regular conversation just as I’m talking to a human being on Earth). The more time I spent with God, my connection with Him just became stronger. My relationship with Him went from: “Do I really know God” to “I really know and love my Heavenly Father.” He speaks to me through His Word, in the midst of my prayers, via people, watching TV, dreams/vision, etc. Moreover, I would let people know that these are the ways that guided me towards a stronger and closer relationship/connection with God.
As I close this letter, I would like to understand you as best as I can in all areas of our marriage. So, how can I help you become a better woman of God and a better woman period? Do you feel you are at a point of confidence where you can share the love of Christ to those who may want to know more about your spiritual walk? What are various ways that you desire me to express my love towards you? My beautiful queen I look forward to hearing your reply, and I’m excited to get your feedback! Have a blessed and lovely day!
Always Love,
Your Future Husband
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Fellas and Ladies, how does God speak to you? In what ways, have you helped your partner draw closer to God?
Tune in for next week’s post- For Him: Part 20.
If you missed last week’s “For Him: Part 18,” tune in HERE.
