For Him: Part 34

Welcome to Part 34 of the series "Dear Future Spouse." It's time to savor the holidays! Great food! Great family memories! Healthy Communication! A loving God! These are real people who are writing to their future King and Queen. They do not personally know each other, but they are getting to know each other through the letters. Each week, you will find a response to the letter before. So, grab some coffee, tea, or tissue, and enjoy! Tell us what you think!

Dear Future Husband,

I agree with everything you stated about taking family in when they need assistance with getting back on their feet. It’s important that deadlines and boundaries are set to help protect our space and to avoid [as much as possible] feeling like we’re being taken advantage of. I’ve always been a hospitable person, so I never want anyone to feel unwelcome in my home, but there are also times I love to shut out everything outside and be home with those nearest to my heart.

I may have mentioned this before (forgive me if I did), but I’m really excited about my 2018 Dear Future Spousevision board that I have already created. It not only forced me to really think about what I want from the coming year, but it was a time for reflection of all that this year has taught me. Everything that I’ve learned and grown from. If you believe in vision boards, goals, setting expectations, I truly encourage you to do so. It will bring so much clarity and focus.

I was rereading some of our earlier letters, and it made me wonder if your perspectives on this have shifted. When I asked about fears in marriage, you mentioned not being able to protect and provide for your wife/family. Is this still a fear? If it’s subsided, what changed to calm your fears?

You asked me how you could help me become a better woman of God and a better woman overall. At the time I told you to pray for your own patience in understanding and dealing with me. While I hope you are still praying this prayer daily, I would like to slightly modify my response: Don’t be afraid to tell me when I’m wrong. Let me know, with love, if I didn’t handle a certain situation well. We’re all human, and sometimes, view things from our own lens for so long, we forget how flawed that point of view can be. If I offend you, let me know so I can adjust. If you notice I offended a friend, please do the same. I want people to see the light of God through me and not have this clouded by miscommunication and dissension.

I hope that you had an amazing Thanksgiving with your family and built some cherished memories. I pray that the Christmas holidays will be just as amazing. One day, we will share the holidays together, and for that I am already grateful.

Until next time,

Your Future Wife

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Fellas and Ladies, what prayers would you like for your future spouse to pray in relation to you becoming a better person?

Tune in for next week’s post- For Her: Part 35.

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